Where to Meet

East Bay: I’m available to host at a spacious private loft equipped for light kink in Emeryville, and two well-appointed and fully equipped dungeon spaces in Lake Merritt, Oakland. Add an additional fee of $60-70/hr.

San Francisco + beyond: I can secure a room for us at a business class hotel in your preferred area for an additional $300. For a luxury suite experience, add $1000 and I’ll arrange the room- including a bottle and gourmet snacks. While on tour, add $200 for 1hr dates, and $100 for all others.

I'd love to join you at your private residence or hotel in the Bay Area and surrounding areas.

  • East Bay | + $60 travel

  • San Francisco | 1.5hr minimum + $120 travel

  • SFO airport, San Mateo | 2hr minimum + $200 travel

  • South Bay, San Jose | 2hr minimum + $200 travel fee

  • North Bay (Marin, Sausalito) | 2hr minimum + $200 travel

  • Sacramento | 3hr minimum + $250 travel

  • Napa, Sonoma | 4hr minimum + $250 travel

  • Monterey, Central Valley | 4hr minimum + $300 travel

  • I require a 50% deposit to reserve my time and confirm an appointment. I accept deposits via Venmo, select gift cards, Bitcoin, or by mail.

    I will send you deposit details when ready to confirm our appointment.

  • I understand life can be unpredictable and get in the way of plans sometimes. If you must cancel, your deposit may be rolled over to another date rescheduled within 4 weeks, or another date during the same tour. Otherwise, the policy below applies.

    • Cancellations outside of 48 hours - the deposit is forfeited

    • Cancellations within 48 hours incurs 100% of my fee. Deposits are applied to the cancellation fee. Payments must be sent within 72 hours in order to see me in the future.

    In the rare event I must cancel, I will return your deposit via the same payment method if we are unable to reschedule our date.

  • 3+ hour dates require some sort of the following: refreshments (tea/coffee, juice, mocktail, cocktail, wine), small bites/snacks, cocktail bar, etc. Don’t have time to get beverages and snacks? I can provide them for an additional fee.

    4+ hour dates require at least one meal together. If you have privacy concerns or don’t want to venture out, we can order a fine meal in.

    Overnights include 2 meals (typically dinner and breakfast) and at least 7 hours of sleep. For multi-day dates I require at least 2 hours of daily solo time to recharge.

  • Health Protocols

    I’ve had both Covid vaccinations and get my boosters yearly. Please be fully vaccinated and boosted. If you have a health issue that poses a barrier to vaccination, I’ll require additional testing measures. I’ve been fully vaccinated for Monkeypox as well.

    I require you to take a rapid Covid test at least 3 hours before we meet on the day of our date and send me a photo of it- I'll do the same. This practice builds trust and ensures our mutual comfort and safety. 

Fly Me To You / With You

I delight in coming to your home city or town, joining you on a vacation, or accompanying you on a work trip. We can even plan a special vacation together. No matter the mode of transportation - I’m happy to entertain travel on your schedule.

  • West Coast | 3hr min

  • Mountain Time + Vancouver | 4hr min

  • Central Time | 6hr min

  • East Coast | 8hr min

  • Canada, North/Central/South America | 16hr overnight min

  • Asia + Oceana | 24hr min

  • Europe | 48hr min

Ample notice is best, so that I can arrange for my travel by car, train, or plane as well as accommodations.

I charge a custom FMTY travel fee on top of my consideration, which includes flight, hotel, cab, and incidentals. I require a 50% deposit to secure our time plus the travel fee. I request business class for travel beyond 5 hours.

  • I see clients of all races, nationalities, genders, sexual orientations, body sizes, and disabilities. All are enthusiastically welcome with me to explore in a caring and non-judgemental environment.

    I see women, trans, and nonbinary people, and those across the gender spectrum. Dates with queer people bring me immense joy. I offer sliding scale rates for fellow trans folks and providers under certain circumstances- inquire within.

  • I am disability inclusive and have some experience with people who use mobility aids and medical devices. I’m familiar with HoH and Deaf folks, and am a beginner in ASL. I completed the Professional Disability Awareness Training (PDAT) For Sex Workers. One of my Oakland incalls is wheelchair accessible. I’m happy to book an accessible hotel room for our date as well.

  • As an esteemed unicorn, I delight in joining couples, throuples, and polycules. The pleasure we can share together is truly limitless, whether you’re new lovers or devoted partners. I’d love to create an encounter that will foster new depths of connection and intimacy.

    There is a 2 hour minimum for couples, and a 3 hour minimum for throuples and more. Add 500 to my rate for couples, and 1000 for throuples.

  • I have many friends of all genders who can join us. Perhaps you envision a hot threesome, a decadent orgy, or a group kink scene. Maybe you’d like to be pampered, or be of service to me and my friends. I delight in coalescing the perfect combination of energies and personalities.

    Consideration is matched to the provider with the highest rate. There is a 1.5 hour minimum for duos, although 2 hours is highly recommended. There’s a 3 hour minimum for trios, and longer minimums for larger groups. Inquire within, subscribe to my newsletter, check my social media, or peruse my friends page for possibilities on who can join us.